It doesn’t matter what everyone else thinks!
The world is filled with haters and critics and it doesn’t matter how you live your life- whether you build a business or work a corporate job; have children or choose not to have children; travel the world or live in the same town all of your life; go to the gym 5 times a week or sit on the couch every night – whatever you do, someone will judge you for it.
Are you affected by what others think and say about you?
Has it ever occurred to you that no matter what anyone thinks of you that does not change the truth of who you really are?
Leave people to their own judgements and let people love you for who you are and not who they want you to be.
Perhaps you may want to say this to yourself whenever others judge you; “No matter what you say or do to me, I am still a worthwhile, valuable person and that will never change!”
People are always judging each other, and the truth is, they are not very good at it.
Don’t put a lot of concern into what people think of you. You were not created to please and entertain everyone. You were created to be you, so feel good about yourself.
“Too many people spend money they haven’t earned, to buy things they don’t want,
to impress people they don’t like.”
~ Will Rogers
Again, this is because no matter what you do, how much effort you put in, or how well you did something, there will always be people who will judge and criticize.
Whatever you do, know why you are doing it and do it well to the best of your efforts. As long as you can answer to yourself, you will feel good and have a clear conscience.
Perhaps this sums it up…
Replying to the tributes paid to him at a testimonial dinner,
Herbert Bayard Swope said: “I cannot give you the formula, the sure fire for success, but I can give you the formula for failure. Try to please everybody all the time”
Love yourself, trust yourself, and create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Don’t waste energy trying to change the opinions of others—do your own thing!
Go and live the best life that you deserve now!
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About the Author:
Sage Crystal has spent the last ten years in study, meditation, contemplation and prayer and the more she learns the more she realizes she has yet to scratch the surface. Through her work as a Life Coach and composer of Self-Development & Spirituality articles and eBooks, she intends to bring to the world community as many different approaches to Living Our Highest Best Life that she can.
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